No country for rapists.

This picture has been doing the rounds on social media for a few days now. Some people have attempted to challenge the BBC’s “representation” of India with these figures. But are the numbers any comfort at all?

“Rapes are a shame but propaganda on it: WORSE”
Clearly, a section of our population, our media and our legislators believe that a “propaganda fueled documentary” IS worse than the fact that the rapes actually happened.
If the propaganda fueled documentary portrayed factual inaccuracies, go ahead, berate it. But if you think that reporting the darker half of our country should be banned, there really is no difference between us and North Korea, is there? 
We are by no means a country of rapists. Certainly not the kind that was responsible for the Delhi gangrape case. But think about. Isn’t it true that lots of people DO NOT disagree with the opinions of the defense lawyers? Isn’t it true that at least 94% of marital rape in India goes unreported? Isn’t it true that despite looking at the facts in that picture and much before that documentary was aired, almost every single girl you know is,was and probably will be for quite some time, afraid to travel alone at night on a bus or even walk on the street alone at night? Isn’t it true that some will question the very need for girls to walk alone at night? This isn’t a brush-under-the-carpet minority. It’s a lot of people both rich and poor, educated and illiterate, men and women, hindu and muslim and from other religions who have mindsets that are stuck in the 17th century. I’m not ashamed of India. I’m ashamed of those Indians.

The picture asks an important question: How many documentaries does the BBC do about the social system of the USA? From that question alone, 2 things are clear.
1) The person who made this picture has not watched the documentary. The documentary is a series of interviews of the people related to the Nirbhaya case.
2) The person who made this picture admits that the statements made by various Indians in the documentary is a telling reflection of our social system.

Why doesn’t the BBC do documentaries on the USA? Are there no problems there? Surely there are. And the BBC must be asked to do something about it. The BBC might have chosen this case purely for commercial interests and because they felt it would be easy to gain access to an Indian convict on death row as opposed to an American prisoner. But neither of those is a reason to ban it. Why are we afraid of debate? Of action? Why do we love big statements and promises? Why do we care so much for words and adjectives?

We’re all proud of India. But we will not blindly defend its people’s short comings. We will strive to fix it. And then if the BBC does a piece like this on India, 1.2 Billion of us will stand up to them and send them back with their heads hanging in shame.

Stay Safe. Stay Informed.

Anirudh Dinesh,
Editor-At-Large, Dudurudh.

Why hang them when you can punish them?

All countries are defined by their cultures, their heritages and their values. 

India is no different. We’re defined not just by our culture, heritage, and values but also by the diversity therein. 
We’re taught to respect elders, women in particular. We’re even taught to respect cows. And trees. 
How is it then, that crimes against women are on the rise in a country like ours? 
We respect our women so much, that a majority of them in previous generations, spent most of their lives serving their husbands and raising kids. They did a magnificent job of it too. Without complaining. We, men, did precious little to change that. ( We made a quota to reserve 33% seats in parliament for women. Bravo! ) Many women, in any chance they got to step out and do something different, have done wonders. Yet, that’s a trend that’s picking up agonisingly slowly. 
It’s our fault as a people that we refused to treat women as equals. If we did, there would be more women in parliament than that women’s “quota” allows. 
Given that history of contradictory heritage and value set, is it really any surprise that there are crimes against women? These men aren’t psychopaths. They’re completely aware of what they’re doing. They find it unnatural for women to be outside the kitchen. To their minds, a women adventurous enough to wander the streets of India freely, is a rebel who won’t complain if anything were to happen to her. 
People debating on national TV, must choose their words carefully. Calling these men psychopaths or sociopaths or mentally ill is affording them an excuse they just don’t deserve. They’re extreme manifestations of a school of thought that has ruled minds in this country for too long. 
By ” these men “, I mean Stalkers, molesters, eve teasers and obviously rapists. Also included in that list should be every single man who’s ever looked at a women disrespectfully. 
I’ll come to what must be done with these men in a bit. But what do you do to stop this menace?
You’ve got to teach kids to respect not just women but their freedom too. That women can do everything men can. Education is the biggest weapon we have to change mindsets. There is an old generation in parts of our country doing things like getting kids married at 16. The generation after them, must not make mistakes of that kind. 70% of our population is under the Age of 35 or 40. Surely, that’s enough people to make sure that our country’s future promises women a safe place to live. 
Meanwhile, what do you do with the guys who’re still stuck in 1653 when kings made women dance for their pleasure? 
Hang them to death?
NO. 
Death is an escape route for them. 
Why would you pass off the chance to torture them mentally?
Besides, death is an act that god almighty controls. Mere mortals have no right to take another’s life. But they do have the right to take away another’s sanity.
Solitary confinement. 
Put the rapist in a 10×10 room that has only window. Don’t even let him see the prison guard’s face. 
Loneliness and complete disconnect from society has, in the past, turned people senile. Well, good riddance. One day, he’ll die naturally. But not before he’s turned absolutely looney, to the point that he’s waiting for someone to kill him. But we’ll keep him waiting for his own death. And then his punishment is complete. Bury his remains, with the respect it deserves and as our culture mandates. 
Lets not become murderers. Lets isolate criminals. Quite literally.